.Yet what Astrid doesn't realize yet is an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses two boys-- can attest to: The fact that your partnership along with your moms and dads changes and grows as you each age, and hopefully for the better. "Your planet centers around [your children] when they are actually infants [and] it is actually a lot work but beautiful," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you actually skip that, because then you can not acquire all of them to do everything you prefer all of them to perform, considering that they begin establishing their own minds, their personal point of views." As well as inevitably, you wind up in the location O'Hara, whose children are in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself today, able to pick up from her children. "They're merely such trendy youthful men," she claims. "I'm not their buddy, but I enjoy possessing conversations with them as well as understanding how they consider lifestyle.".